2. Identify where other conscious singles go and hang out.
I hear time and time again, “I want a self-aware partner,” yet the speakers sit home and do nothing. They do not email people back online.
That does not make any sense.
If you desire to be with a conscious partner, consider where such people would hang out. If you want a spiritual person, go to that spiritual practice location, attend and participate. And of course, think about what dating sites they would use. That’s the key!
Going once may not do the trick. If you want someone who loves personal growth and development work, then become a regular at those kind of events and participate. Ask good questions and get to know people. People know I’m famous for asking someone playfully, “So are you single and dating, in a relationship or married?” You may be wondering, why do I recommend this? The answer to this question lets you know right away if someone is available or not. I believe in cutting to the chase.
3. A conscious person uses conscious language.
Listen carefully to the people you meet. Do they use words like “aware,” “spiritual,” “personal growth,” and “reflection?” If they don’t, this is a tell-tale sign that a person may not be very conscious.
Can this person become conscious, sure… but do you want to train them? I’ve done years and years of personal growth work. If I met someone starting from where I began, do you know how long it would take them to catch up? It would probably be about ten years. I don’t mean to be harsh about it, but if you’re a conscious person, I bet you know exactly how long it took you to get there.